Listening to different music and dressing differently from the mainstream doesn’t make you alternative. If you’re misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, closed minded, judgmental, and generally lack maturity and empathy then you’re just like everyone else.
So many punks, Goths, metal people, and allegedly “alternative” people are just as bigoted and disgusting as everyone else. You’re Not alternative. You’re just a different flavor of asshole.